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Confession: Am I a Selfish Bisexual?

Anonymous
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I don't know if I'd be considered bi-sexual but in the past year & a half I have had some sexual experiences with a woman & definately enjoyed it...& before anyone asks I am happily married to a man & she is happily married to a man as well..infact our DH's both watched us so yeah they know about it. I think women are beautful and I admit I Love a nice set of tits!

However, the reason I say I may be selfish is because I have let this woman perform oral sex on me twice & even though I truly enjoyed it (she did it better than some men I have been with) there is NO WAY I'll EVER RETURN THE FAVOR. Just the thought of me licking a womans crotch grosses me out & I wont kiss a person after they do that either I Have Never & Will Never do oral sex on a female.. but have no problem if they want to do it to me...also if I perform oral sex on my DH I WILL NOT allow him to ejaculate in my mouth or anywhere on my skin for that matter, to me the taste,smell, and consistency of cum makes me sick I have tried & I litteraly vomited. I prefer my DH to finish inside me so anotherwards for us a BJ is just foreplay.

So am I wrong or selfish for never being willing to return the favor to my female friend? 

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:25 AM
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happy41ce
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:28 AM
I thought being bi was actually having sex with another female?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:28 AM

You've got issues and I don't have tissues.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:31 AM

Wow, did I write this? LOL... DH and I used to hang with a lot of swingers... I let 2 go down on me while the DH's watched but I'm also grossed out by returning the favor... Because of that I don't consider myself bi lol.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:35 AM
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You are bi-friendly :)
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:39 AM

 

Oral sex Is sex if it wasn't it wouldn't have the word sex in it..lol

Quoting happy41ce:

I thought being bi was actually having sex with another female?


 

happy41ce
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:40 AM
I mean you are not bi- you do not give oral sex to other female(s)....

Quoting Anonymous:

 


Oral sex Is sex if it wasn't it wouldn't have the word sex in it..lol


Quoting happy41ce:

I thought being bi was actually having sex with another female?



 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:41 AM
Your not bi. How is a bj any different then licking?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:42 AM

Bi-friendly... huh I kinda like that term :) 


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You are bi-friendly :)


 

Kitsun
by Ruby Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:43 AM
You're not selfish it's just your personal preference. I know gay male couples where one of them doesn't like receiving anal or doesn't like sucking dick. It's just part of life
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rockabillybetty
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 3:43 AM
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Im bi and id rather be down on her ! I do enjoy receiving but i like giving more. Weird but i don't get the bisexual vibes from your post lol
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