He adopted his now ex wife's three children and she does everything she can to make his life a living hell. He pays his child support every single month and always helps out with extras, he goes to all of their functions and sees them every chance he gets.
She's now caught wind that we are engaged, that's something we had purposely not told her, and sent him a nasty text calling me a whore and telling him she will take him to court and have it so that I can never be around the kids.
I know once we are married she won't have a say and there is no clause in their divorce that says no overnight guests when the kids are over.
I also have no sort of criminal record that would deem me unsafe around kids, hell I'm a nanny. And the two youngest kids love me, the oldest has been alienated by her mother and won't have anything to do with us.
So if she does take us court will they make me stay away until we get married?