Those were his exact words, and I'm very sensitive to the situation because DD's bio-dad does not want to see her, hear about her, or pay child support. He was going to willingly sign over rights. I just don't understand why he would not WANT his child.
So when he told me that, of course it makes me feel like he does not love and care for my DD. He has been very involved in her life since she was born and my DD adores him, but because we may not stay together he doesn't want to adopt her. She is almost a year old, no matter if he adopts her or not that's the only daddy she has ever known, so even if we did get divorced later down the road that would still be her dad in her eyes at least.
Am I being irrational over this? He doesn't see my side and I have no intention of getting divorced, I love him and his daughter as much as I love my own, but my feelings are really hurt by this.