Damn woman, either keep your legs closed or get your ass on some birth control!
The first time I got pregnant was at THE WORST possible time. We recieved Medicaid and food stamps while I was pregnant and until dd was almost 2, at that point DH and I both had stable jobs and we were doing good.
Yes, sometimes you need help.
But geez I see these women and they aren't struggling with one child. Or 2. They've got 3, 4, and 5 or more kids that they can't afford and are complaining about how they can't afford them.
And I just dont understand it.
Sometimes pregnancy occurs at the wrong time.
But If you have child(ren) that you can't afford, or are struggling to support, then why in fucking hell would you want to go out any get knocked up again???
Why not take precautions so that you can get on your feet and take care of the kids you already have?
We had two more kids, so we have a 9 year old, a 3 year old and a 7 month old. We could afford more, but after that third one I swear my uterus was ready to jump out of my body and into oncoming traffic. So why would anyone want to keep have more kids when they aren't able to afford the child(ren) they already have?
I see these women on food stamps, Medicaid, and in government housing,
If you aren't going to try to do anything to get on your feet then maybe , instead of sitting around complaining about how you just can't afford your 5 kids, you should take that Medicaid and go get your ass some Birthcontrol.
Come on. If you're complaining about by being able to afford your kids, then you should be taking precautions so that you don't end up pregnant again,
I mean, is that too difficult to understand.
Eta: i know shit happens. Thats life.
I'm not saying this is ALL women.
SIL is one of these women....
I see this daily.