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How do you tell *update

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

your sister that her husband of over 5 years is an unfaithful jerk?

She forgave him the first time he cheated and I thought they were happy but I was completely wrong! I went over to pick up my lil one from visiting with them. My sister was taking a shower so I thought I would just wait on her so I could hang out with her a bit. Well her husband comes over to sit next to me on the couch and we just start talking about work and stuff nothing big. Well out of nowhere he puts his hand on my upper thigh. I pushed it away and was like wtf are you doing?! He comes closer and is making grabs for my arms and puckering up his lips saying things like I am so hot and he wants me so bad right now. I screamed and as soon as he heard the water turn off he ran into their bedroom. I picked up my lil one and just ran out of there. IDK why I didn't stay to tell her right than and there but I just wanted away from him.

I just got a home a few mins ago and my sister has called me 3 times already asking why I didn't wait on her and for me to call her as soon as I am safely home. 

IDK where to begin or how to tell her what happened. I love her and want her happy but this would hurt her so bad. 

Anyone have a time machine??? 


You ladies are right. I am going to call her back right now...wish me luck! I hope she isn't mad at me!!!


Well she said she needed some time to think about what I just told her. I offered for her to come over but she said she doesn't want to see me right now. She than told me that she has intention of leaving her husband just because I'm jealous over her marriage and want her to be single as well. Idk really know how to take all that. But I guess it's somehow all my fault...I just thought she needed to know is that so wrong?!

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:26 PM
Replies (11-20):
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:41 PM

I completely agree! 

Quoting MrsDavidB25:

 What a pig. Your sister deserves better.


ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:42 PM

yeah. I can't imagine. Best of luck. That'd be hard to talk about with her. 

Quoting Anonymous:

Yes I agree she does but pretty hard to put something like that gently. 

Quoting ColtsFan1912:

I would just tell her. I would want to know. She deserves to know. :\



Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:43 PM

I plan to just thinking of how to put it exactly there's really no nice way to say it. ; (

Quoting Sassy762:

Tell her what that JackASS did........


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:43 PM

Thanks! 

Quoting ColtsFan1912:
yeah. I can't imagine. Best of luck. That'd be hard to talk about with her. 
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:43 PM
I'm sorry but I'm sure he knows you would tell, maybe he was just messin around, NOT saying he's not a cheater though.
gblossom
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:45 PM

I would tell my sister immediately - she might be mad or she might be glad, either way I would have to get it off of my chest.

Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:45 PM

Just sit her down and tell her while she was in the shower that her JackAss did..................................and then when he ran into the bedroom when he heard here turnt he shower off.

There is no easy way to say it....so just tell her the best way yo can,. SHE needs to know this is going on. IF he does that with you with her in the other room, can you just imagine what that jackass is doing when he isnt around her??????

PinkButterfly66
by Emerald Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:45 PM

Tell her you left so you wouldn't have to kill her husband.  When she asks why would you want to do that, tell her that her pos husband came on to you and grabbed you telling you that you're hot and that he "wants you so bad now".

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:45 PM

That could be true but still I feel she needs to know because I sure as hell am not going to be around him anymore. 

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm sorry but I'm sure he knows you would tell, maybe he was just messin around, NOT saying he's not a cheater though.


PitbullPrincess
by Woof on Feb. 7, 2013 at 4:45 PM

eww. Awkward.  The best way to say it would be to just come out with it I suppose.   Wish I had better advice!


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