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New boyfriend meets porn star... Would you be mad?

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So my boyfriend of 1 month is in the app development business in New York.  He did an app for a local radio station that turned out great.  Well this morning that radio station interviewed a local porn star who a few years ago opened an adult store in city.  He and his business partner decided that that was a good "IN" to approach her, discuss the radio thing and to try to get her to make apps.  So they went into her store and tried to "sell" the idea of making apps to her.  In the mean time she was trying to sell her toys and even showed them all the porns she starred in. One business person to another!  

But it bothers me that

1. He targeted her, a local porn star to gain new business

2. That now all I can imagine is her watching him watching her porn

3. My mind is now tainted with the thought that I may wonder if any toys we use in the future will be be from her store or some move he does will be from her video... which turns me off!

I don't mind if he watches porn, but the thought of him meeting this chick he watched get railed in real life, and trying to gain business with her upsets me.

Would you be upset or am I just having a jealous girly moment?  Should I just be happy that he even told me?  I just wanna barf right now... 

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:07 PM
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by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:09 PM
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Your having a girl moment and the fact that he told you is good.
by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:11 PM
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I would find a new boyfriend. If this bothers you, which I understand, it's not going to get any smoother for you. 

by Silver Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:11 PM

Glad he was honest enough to tell you but wow-him approaching her seems a bit much. I bet he just wanted a good story to tell his buddies. I would be upset too but don't really know what you can do about it.

by Ruby Member on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:11 PM

No it wouldnt bother me. All he was doing was trying to get a new client for his business. I think you are having a girly moment and he told you everything that had happen during this meet and greet. Which is all nothing but good signs.

by on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:16 PM
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Nope. She is a business woman, her business is sex. I doubt she was there for anything else. He needs clientelle - he went out and found some, that's business.

I don't think you have anything to worry about since he was so upfront and honest, but if you can't be upfront and honest with him about how this upset you - you need to get out of this before it becomes more serious.

This incident and your
"girly moment" is exposing your insecurities. He told you about it, would you rather he hide it?

by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:17 PM

I'm all about my man trying to hustle and generate new business. I would not be jealous.

by Kali on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:17 PM

No I wouldn't be upset. Approaching her is just good business, she's a porn star and has her own store which I'm assuming is a successful one. She could bring in a lot of business for your boyfriend. I honestly don't understand why it upsets you. So what if he ever watches a porn she is in or buys toys from her store, it's not like he was asking her out on a date or hoping to get into her pants.

by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:19 PM
No... I guess if he tried to bring any of her porn, or specific toys into the bedroom I would be creeped out other than that I wouldn't care.
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:22 PM
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It would bother me!
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 7, 2013 at 7:25 PM
It's just business.
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