I my self is guilty of it. I read a post from a women . That said I am her mommy now. Everyone got rude put her in her place. I have to admit my mommy claws came out. But than I realized I would never put my child in that situation. If due to divorce I would be in court making sure it didn't happen. But here is where the hypocrite part comes in to play. So many women on here make mean comments to mom's who are just venting about being overwhelmed. Moms on PA. Telling them you shouldn't have kids. But this women comes on saying she loves this baby. And you tell her your a baby sitter. Yet if the bio-mom had posted I am on drugs I chose my bf and drugs over my baby I only text once a week. You would have ripped her a new one ,telling her to give her baby to someone who will love her and give her a stable life. I'm just sayin..