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are you better

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Do you feel that you're better than women who are infertile, adopted or used fertility treatments because you got pregnant naturally?

I'm infertile and get bashed by my fertile friends for being an infertile stepmom
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2013 at 10:39 AM
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Elle.tea.22
by Ruby Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:38 PM
I always thought I was infertile due to crazy ammounts of cysts and other technical issues. This baby took me by surprise. An ultrasound shows no more cysts in there (they used to line everything and not pop with hormonal changes as they're supposed to and one was as big as a dime once!) so now I have to worry about babies. I was very happy being sterile.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:39 PM

Not at all. I think those that do just have a need to put people down. 

happykitty316
by Platinum Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:46 PM

My kids are adopted, I'm infertile, and people generally think I'm stupid or inadequate when it comes to raising my kids.  I was unaware, but apparently parenting skills are developed in your uterus as well....

crumpy_gat
by No. on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:47 PM
Omg no that's awful
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:47 PM

Im wondering why you would consider who bashes you a "friend"

mich.el.le
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:47 PM
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No. I don't see how that would make me any better. Some of the worst scum on the earth are fertile, so obviously their logic breaks down there.

MalakbelLacuna
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:48 PM

no way

bcoll
by Brandi on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:48 PM

Not at all.

moosesmom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:48 PM
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Oh wow. You need new "friends. The real kind.
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 8, 2013 at 7:49 PM

Absolutely not

I am just luckier than you are and that sucks that someone would bash you over something you have no control over. BTW......those TWATS are NOT your friends

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