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I think my husband has been tampering with my birth control. :/

Anonymous
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I have a 3 year old, a 14 month old and I just found out I am pregnant.

When I became pregnant with my three year old, my husband and I  were using condoms. I didn't think much of it and figured maybe we had a defective condom. Now I am not so sure. :(

I switched to the diaphragm. I got pregnant again. :/ I thought maybe I just didn't use it properly.

So I switched to the pill.

I take my pill at the same time every day. I've never missed a day. There's no way that I've had three birth control failures like this. I don't know what to do and how to bring it up. It just doesn't make sense to me.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:13 PM
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heresjohnny
by Emerald Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:15 PM
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There's no way he could tamper with your diaphragm or BC pills without you noticing.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:15 PM
Nothing in your post makes sense. I don't believe any of it.
scperdomo
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:15 PM
Tell him you are getting an abortion and see how he reacts. Idk, honestly. I dont know how I'd feel or how I'd react if I thought my husband might be sabotaging my bc. Good luck.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:15 PM


I would be suspicious at this point also
HyrulianHeroine
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:17 PM

how could he sabotage your pills :/ I'm confused sorry. Unless he hid them, but you said you haven't missed a day so i think your just unlucky...or lying.

EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:17 PM
Why would your conclusion be that your husband is tampering with your stuff?
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EmmaGlenn20
by Platinum Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:17 PM

If you were taking your pill every single day on time each day, and made sure that they were untampered with and in their package before you took them, I can't see how he could have tampered with them.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:19 PM


I don't know. Maybe I am just trying to make sense of it all. I can not be this inept at using birth control. :/. It just does not seem possible to me.

Quoting HyrulianHeroine:

how could he sabotage your pills :/ I'm confused sorry. Unless he hid them, but you said you haven't missed a day so i think your just unlucky...or lying.



Fallin4baby
by Gold Member on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:19 PM
This

Quoting EmmaGlenn20:

If you were taking your pill every single day on time each day, and made sure that they were untampered with and in their package before you took them, I can't see how he could have tampered with them.

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CrazyLife1996
by on Feb. 8, 2013 at 4:19 PM
Or you could just be a fertile mertle like me.

BC just doesn't work for me not even a tubal.
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