If there is drama that surrounded you, can you leave it behind? This being said, you let stuff roll off your back. Will it eventually just go away?
I realize some things are so bad that they will be unforgivable by most of the moms on here. I am talking about in general.
ETA: Guessing won't do any good because no matter who you guess, I will just ignore it. It's just for the best. If you are that person who gets guessed then by all means say something:)
I am shocked at how nice you all have been in this post. Thank you:)