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I feel like Im dying from a broken heart

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Please tell me how to stop this pain. Im 32 years old and my husband is 35. We have been together for 17 and this October  we will celebrate 10 years of marriage. We live for our four amazingly beautiful children who i cant even begin to explain what we feel for our children. Our olderst daughter is 16 and a sophmore in high school and has aspergers syndrome. Oursecond born is 14, she is in 8th grade. I cant give her enogh credit for stepping up to the plate and filling in the role of "eldest" and still has time to be on school teams like basckel. That brings us to our 7 year old youngest daughter, She is in second grade and has not missed being 

by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 3:55 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:12 AM
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I'm glad he is going to jail. He was NOT thinking about his family when he got involved in drugs, he was thinking of an easy, lazy way to make money.
katelynsmommy30
by Bronze Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:14 AM
Read what you wrote, you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll get through this, your children are obviously on a good path, don't start having thoughts that they will turn into statistics. You got through being a young mom, and still have a strong marriage, your children see that, and it teaches them. I feel for you, I do, but you seem so bright, don't have these thoughts! Hugs!


Quoting Anonymous:

I got pregnant at 14 had my daughter at 15 and had my son my junior yr and guess what I wasnt on pa my then bf had a JOB and he knew what responsibility is.my husband and me have been together for a long time I am 32 and I dont regret us being young parents it is not for everyone and its very hard but it is possible.my daughter will graduate hs next yr with both parents married together something rare since divorce and step parents are becoming the.norm.




Quoting mamabearjkda:

heh interesting, amazing that at the age of 13 or 14 getting pregnant having your husband i'm assuming boyfriend back then stand beside you and be there and have another child 2 years later when you were what 16?? and he's still in the picture? Please do tell me what your heart is breaking over??



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soultree81
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:22 AM

he just wanted to have a gift for them on xmas, he was a custom glass and mirror cutter until he had a work injury that left him permananty disabled and he has a limp thats is messing up his hips and shoulders... he applied at every fast food restaurant in 10 mile radius not one call back... and i hope that u never go through anything like this n someone tell u they r glad without knowing the full scope may god bless u

soultree81
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:24 AM

thank u

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:26 AM
I am not the poster I was just commenting this comment.obviously people seem to not believe just because you got with someone young.you cant stay together.i think the person commenting is going thru a rough time obviously her life was harder than mine having a child with a illness that can put stress on and relationship and a mother any age.


Quoting katelynsmommy30:

Read what you wrote, you have a good head on your shoulders, you'll get through this, your children are obviously on a good path, don't start having thoughts that they will turn into statistics. You got through being a young mom, and still have a strong marriage, your children see that, and it teaches them. I feel for you, I do, but you seem so bright, don't have these thoughts! Hugs!




Quoting Anonymous:

I got pregnant at 14 had my daughter at 15 and had my son my junior yr and guess what I wasnt on pa my then bf had a JOB and he knew what responsibility is.my husband and me have been together for a long time I am 32 and I dont regret us being young parents it is not for everyone and its very hard but it is possible.my daughter will graduate hs next yr with both parents married together something rare since divorce and step parents are becoming the.norm.






Quoting mamabearjkda:

heh interesting, amazing that at the age of 13 or 14 getting pregnant having your husband i'm assuming boyfriend back then stand beside you and be there and have another child 2 years later when you were what 16?? and he's still in the picture? Please do tell me what your heart is breaking over??




justpeachy71904
by peachy on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:27 AM
Awww a broken heart sucks. Hugs momma. I am so sorry. Are you sure this is not fixable?
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Megan11587
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:28 AM

hmmm...?

soultree81
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:34 AM

i understand. i just have my moments that are usually when my kids are sleeping so they dont see me so upset.

i understand my support system backing away becasue they dont know how to "help" me or how to advise me but for me just knowing they are theree and feeling their presence is enough sometimes silence is the best remedy...

 all who know me know i talk about my problems, if im mad sad happy i let it be known... i tell my hubby everything but i dont want to make him feel sad by breaking down so i suck it bak of course in front of my kids i am a rock and i havent had any way to vent so i get like this and it scares the shit out of me

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:34 AM
She is right you know..my husband and me have been together for a long time but if anything happened to him I would cry and then pull my self together for my children be strong mama you can do it trust me you already know what struggling is.look at your childrens faces and get your strength from them.


Quoting katelynsmommy30:

Ok first, you have got to stop thinking this way! You are literally going to make yourself insane thinking this way. Teach your children right from wrong, teach them to love and respect, and show them the above by your own actions. Your husband did something wrong, unfortunately he has to pay the consequences for his actions. It's the whole right from wrong thing, your children have to see that. Why would you assume your children are going to be led down this self destructive path, because of a mistake your dh made? Listen, I can see your clearly upset, but you really need to take a deep breath, and realize that things are going to be ok as long as you let them. You are making yourself miserable in thought. Hang in there. Maybe talking to a counselor would help? I'm sorry your having such a hard time. Keep your head up.




Quoting soultree81:

now will be lost without their daddy and will begin to act out or have sex runaway, do drugs.and become statisctcs



Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:37 AM
Look at the bright side of things. At least he has three hots and a cot right now. It's one less mouth to feed, one less person to provide for.
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