Cheating or not?! I personally think it is a form of cheating. SO WHY HAVE I DONE IT?!! I'm still trying to figure out if I feel so guilty then why did I keep doing it?! I no longer go to adult chat rooms, since one guy in particular wanted to start talking just one on one. That was it for me, crossing the line. Random strangers to have naughty talks with was one thing, but just one on one regular conversations seem like an online affair. Have you ladies done this?