Went to dinner last night with my parents, while there my 3 teenage brothers were joking about visiting us in the hospital when ds is born. I laugh and stated they won't have to worry about that because the hospital is limiting visitors due to the flu. I have told my family before we don't want visitors while in the hospital and it seemed to be a blessing when I found out about the limitation because my family isn't listening to us. While my mom got really upset and said that better not be the case when I go into labor. I see the hospital stay as my time to relax, get better, and bond with my dh and ds. My family is crazy, my mom gets super emotional all the time, and I have 3 teenage brothers, the last thing I wanna do after having a baby is deal with them. I've given my husband full permission to tell them to leave if they just show up at the hospital. They will be more then welcome to come see him when we get home. Now it looks like I might have to have a scheduled c section and I'm thinking of not even telling them until we are home. If I do that my mom will be upset and call me selfish, I need to point out she's my stepmom but I'm closer to her then my Bm. Any I being selfish?
on Feb. 9, 2013 at 7:34 AM