It's 568 for two girls, 13 and 15. Dh is a sahd. Today dh's ex called him and asked if he could send 200 more because they're out of oil and she's broke until Friday. I told him to tell her to send the girls here until Friday or until she gets oil.
My reasoning is because we're trying to get custody of the girls because her current husband has a drug habit and spends all of the money. We told her to either leave him or we're taking her to court. She refused, quoting her vows (which meant nothing when she kicked dh out).
So my question is, is there anyway this could backfire with me not sending the extra money?