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Asking your husband for things

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:44 PM
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Do you have to ask your husband or SO to buy clothes and such? I could never imagine having to ask. I would feel like I was his child.
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leanntx
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:45 PM
Sure don't!
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lovinglife0682
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
My husband would go crazy if I asked him about every purchase.


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Sure don't!

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Momyplease
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
No I buy my own stuff we are on separate finances. I support myself and my son.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
Yeah - usually it's because what He makes from work is A LOT more than what I do. Also, it's part of our dynamic. We've got a M/s relationship. I don't feel like a child - it's just mutual respect towards each other.
notjstasocermom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM

no way.

Miller0305
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM
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NO, I don't ask.  I buy what I want.  He would laugh at me if I ever asked if I could buy something.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM

No sure don't. But I'm not financially dependent on him either. If I were financially dependent on him, I'd probably ask.  I don't see myself just spending someone else's money when I please.

soon2bmomof3619
by Tinkerbell on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM

When I was a SAHM yes I had to ask for what I needed, but it wasn't exactly asking, I put whatever was needed for me the kids and the house on the list and it was purchased when we went to the store.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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Um no. Those women who have entered marriages like that are complete fools. Or to have 6 kids with someone like that. Yes fools
jbirdsladie27
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:48 PM
No, never
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