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Asking your husband for things

Posted by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:44 PM
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Do you have to ask your husband or SO to buy clothes and such? I could never imagine having to ask. I would feel like I was his child.
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leanntx
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:45 PM
Sure don't!
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lovinglife0682
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
My husband would go crazy if I asked him about every purchase.


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Sure don't!

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Momyplease
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
No I buy my own stuff we are on separate finances. I support myself and my son.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM
Yeah - usually it's because what He makes from work is A LOT more than what I do. Also, it's part of our dynamic. We've got a M/s relationship. I don't feel like a child - it's just mutual respect towards each other.
notjstasocermom
by Emerald Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:46 PM

no way.

Miller0305
by Platinum Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM
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NO, I don't ask.  I buy what I want.  He would laugh at me if I ever asked if I could buy something.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM

No sure don't. But I'm not financially dependent on him either. If I were financially dependent on him, I'd probably ask.  I don't see myself just spending someone else's money when I please.

soon2bmomof3619
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:47 PM

When I was a SAHM yes I had to ask for what I needed, but it wasn't exactly asking, I put whatever was needed for me the kids and the house on the list and it was purchased when we went to the store.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:48 PM
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Um no. Those women who have entered marriages like that are complete fools. Or to have 6 kids with someone like that. Yes fools
jbirdsladie27
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 4:48 PM
No, never
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