We are buying land I homeschool our kids. My husband wants to live off the grid. Solar wind, gardens,live stock. We have a daughter with a skin condition called a nevus that can get cancer it has to be monitored once a year. And I want to live close to town so once in awhile the kids can interacts with other kids. This annoys my husband because he thinks the kids don't need interaction does any one live with there kids cut off from society?