Df left his phone at home yesterday. This is not a big deal. He cant take his phone into work anyway so most of the time he leaves it home.
I was playing with it and he got a text from a female friend who lives about 4 hrs away. Text said " I love it when you dont answer me when I tell you I need you and I would have married you"
I'm like wtf is this? I text her back and ask if she feels that way right now. I was being nice and respectful. I told her he was at work and I would tell him she text.
She text me back telling me about how much she loves him and all this kind of bs. Then proceeds to ask who I am. I am thinking she is drunk or something. She knows exactly who I am. I have talked to her myself.
This goes on throughout the day. I dont really know her but I know who she is and like I said above we have spoken on the phone. She continues to argue with me on the phone about I have a ring but she has his heart. She sends some texts about how classy she is and she will not interfere with us if he does not want her. (Apparently he didnt want her. He asked me to marry him, not her). This whole time I was still being what I call nice. I didnt cuss or say anything rude. The last text she sent me was that I was going to be living in my little rinky dink house just calling it life and feeling used up because I had spread my legs for so many men, I dont even know how many. (That sounds classy right? lol).
By the time DF gets home I am pissed. I tell him whats going on and he apologizes because he doesnt know where this came from either. They have never had anything but a friendship. He tried to call her. She didnt answer so he text and told her off. His main point was she disrespected me and seemed like she was trying to get in the middle of our relationship. He told her to never call or text again.
So I havent heard anything from her today. Maybe its all over. I think its funny how I kept my cool and apparently pissed her off.
She is not his ex. see reply 1st page