My DH and I adopted a baby boy last october. My DH and I are both white and our son has very dark skin (hes black) Its pretty much been that talk of the whole town that I cheated on my DH with a black man. It hurts alot that people would think I would do something like that and what hurts even more is the first thing people notice is my sons skin is diffrent then ours. Why does it even matter what his skin looks like. It bugs me that people still think that way.