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Anonymous
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My DH and I adopted a baby boy last october. My DH and I are both white and our son has very dark skin (hes black) Its pretty much been that talk of the whole town that I cheated on my DH with a black man. It hurts alot that people would think I would do something like that and what hurts even more is the first thing people notice is my sons skin is diffrent then ours. Why does it even matter what his skin looks like. It bugs me that people still think that way. 

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:22 PM
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RLT2
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:25 PM
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If it were me, I'd get my one of my hottest black male friends and go sit in the center of the local bar holding hands all night!  : D

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:27 PM

thats a really good idea, I could really get everyone talking ;) 

Quoting RLT2:

If it were me, I'd get my one of my hottest black male friends and go sit in the center of the local bar holding hands all night!  : D


LaLa_Ivory
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:28 PM
fuck everybody!
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RLT2
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:28 PM
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 They're talking anyway, might as well mess with them a little and have fun!!


Quoting Anonymous:

thats a really good idea, I could really get everyone talking ;) 

Quoting RLT2:

If it were me, I'd get my one of my hottest black male friends and go sit in the center of the local bar holding hands all night!  : D

 


 

missamanda86
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:29 PM

I hate judgemental people

tessamalk
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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Isn't that already the rumor!?

Quoting LaLa_Ivory:

fuck everybody!


TSNDDY
by Emerald Member on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:29 PM
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I would so do that :)

Quoting RLT2:

 They're talking anyway, might as well mess with them a little and have fun!!




Quoting Anonymous:


thats a really good idea, I could really get everyone talking ;) 


Quoting RLT2:


If it were me, I'd get my one of my hottest black male friends and go sit in the center of the local bar holding hands all night!  : D


 




 

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sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:29 PM
Fuck everyone and their assumptions. As long as you and your DH know the truth, it's ok.

Didn't you tell people you were adopting though?
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LaLa_Ivory
by on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:29 PM
bwahahahahahahahahah


Quoting tessamalk:

Isn't that already the rumor!?

Quoting LaLa_Ivory:

fuck everybody!



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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM

I dont know why I even let it bother me. I know I should just say fuck it, but I guess it hard to just know people say that stuff about me and my family. Yes we told family and friends and the church. 

Quoting sandra_t00:

Fuck everyone and their assumptions. As long as you and your DH know the truth, it's ok.

Didn't you tell people you were adopting though?


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