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Can spanking a 7 year old really embarass the child?

Posted by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:02 AM
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Even if it's just the one parent and child in the room?

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by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:02 AM
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skittlefart
by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:03 AM

I was "spanked" all the way till I was like...10...it didn't embarrass me, it'd just piss me off more than anything and hurt like fuck.

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vinalex0581
by Gold Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:05 AM

oh

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:08 AM

It can make them feel ashamed, I suppose that's the same thing really.

katieross
by Silver Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:09 AM

Yes, I do think so.

alf2651
by Gold Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:10 AM

I imagine that it could. 

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Kim042269
by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:10 AM
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Being hit at all is humiliating. Have you never been hit? What did it feel like to you?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:13 AM
Depends on the kid probably. It doesn't embarrass my son, but I know he hates disappointing me and that makes him feel worse than anything... Telling him I'm disappointed in him affects him more than spanking does... And that's been going on since he was like 3. Lol
mrsrodgers0703
by Emerald Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:13 AM
Would you be embarrassed if it was just you and I in the room and I walked over and smacked your butt lol?

(and for the record, I'm not against spanking as a last resort)
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vinalex0581
by Gold Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:14 AM

i guess i was fortunate to never get hit by my peers.

my mom spanked me with a belt before and i didn't feel ashamed or embarrassed. it didn't even hurt me.

but it was just her and myself in my room.

i think if she did that in front of my friends, then i would be embarrassed but since it was just the two of us, it didn't phase me. that's why i don't understand how it would embarrass a child in this particular situation.

Quoting Kim042269:

Being hit at all is humiliating. Have you never been hit? What did it feel like to you?


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vinalex0581
by Gold Member on Feb. 10, 2013 at 3:15 AM

that use to work with my son but he outgrew that rather quickly

Quoting Anonymous:

Depends on the kid probably. It doesn't embarrass my son, but I know he hates disappointing me and that makes him feel worse than anything... Telling him I'm disappointed in him affects him more than spanking does... And that's been going on since he was like 3. Lol


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