Dh is out with his friend and I was enjoying my quiet night alone. 12 rolls around and he texts me saying " You probably don't care, but I'm fine". When I read it I just rolled my eyes. He's a grown man I know he can take care of himself and it's only midnight so I know he's not going to get home til about 2, so I wasn't worried.
He claims since I don't text him when he goes out that I don't care about him. Really? Since when are men THAT sensitive and whiney???
The minute I leave the house he's texting me asking me all kinds of questions, and says he asks to make sure I'm ok, and that he gets in protective mode. And I can't stand it, because he makes me feel so damn ...what's the word? Incapable maybe? He just thinks I can't handle myself. I'm not scared to do things by myself or go out to the store by myself or anything, and he gets so mad that I'm not scared and that if it's my time to go then theres nothing I can do about it lol ya know? I swear he thinks just because I'm a woman that I can't handle anything thrown at me. Ugh...ok got off subject sorry lol.
I just can't stand how he wants me to be stuck up his ass 24/7, i never have time to miss him because of stuff like this. He thinks time apart isn't how a marriage is suppose to be. But I'm a sahm and I'm here every day and I see him everyday allllllllllll the time. He insist that we do everything together, and I wanna pull my hair out. Am I a bitch for feeling like this? I feel guilty, but it's just how I've always been, and I told him that before we got married. He did really good with it but the past year he has just gotten so clingy. Am I the only one like this?