Is there a difference in your state between EBT cards and Child support cards?
They look the same here... so when people are judging what people are paying with you probably should make sure you know more than what you can see.
My mother raised 4 kids with no help from my father b/c he said she would NEVER make it without him.
She did - but now he is still paying back child support for children that now are ages 41 - 31 and have their own kids. He owes her $50,000+
So when she gets the support she goes to Toys R Us, or shoe stores or whatever to buy things for the grandkids. She didn't get the money when she could have used it, doesn't NEED it now, so she does whatever with it.
I wonder how much judgement she gets when she is in her nice clothes, with her hair always done, get in her new car and people have noticed what she is paying with?
She never was on assistance (she has a Masters degree and great parents that helped b/c the could)
So no one really KNOWS.