So dd birthday was last week and I chalked up as a I'm done when it comes for dh family...not one family member called to wish dd a happy birthday..MIL forgot because she was busy filling out taxes. BILS never heard a word from not one and grandma well that lady is a cold hearted B***** (literally the lady has 5 children and only kept one..the one she kept was a twin she gave the sister away because she was ugly. Yeah I know) anywho this morning BIL and his gf called..she has a child from a former marriage and BIL and her just had a baby together. Anywho they called and asked us what we were getting for her daughters birthday and what time they would like us to call them to wish her a happy birthday..I lost it..
basically told her and him that until they can treat my dd the way they wanted their children treated forget it..we have always called their children on their birthdays some years gifts depends on the budget because literally 3 of the 5 grandkids all have birthdays with in the same 2 weeks. They didn't even mention our dd birthday not a single happy birthday and I know they knew it was her birthday I only posted a crap ton of photos on Facebook because unfortunatly that is how most of both families can be apart of it.
And when I said that this year we won't be getting gifts because budget is tight we have to move to TN to WA in the next couple months and are trying to buy a house..BIL gf threw a fit on how her dd needs to be treated like she is part of the family too.. IM DONE