Autism isnt something to be messed with. its not a game. yet sometimes my family doesnt understand that routine is one of the MOST important things about it!
EVERY sunday we go to my parents house. It is routine in my DDs eyes. she woke up this morning fully expecting us to go to nanas house on schedual as always.
so i call my mom to let her know we are on our way and she says 'oh not today i dont feel like it'
at first i thought maybe she was sick. but no. she isnt sick. just doesnt want anyone over.
which is fine. i mean, i cant control what she chooses to do. its her house after all.
but seriously. now DDs whole day is thrown off. she was so upset. she thought nana didnt want her. she finally calmed down as is taking a nap right now.
we had a great day BTW. and in case anyone was wondering about my opinion on all of your replies, instead of going through them all i will just make one statement.
Have a nice day.
Those of you who understood that i was just venting frustration, and just offered an ear and a hug, thank you! You know who you are.