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"If you loved your baby, if you wanted your baby, you would have kept them"



Bull. I commend women who have the strength to willingly give a child they love up for adoption for the sake of the child. I had respect for birthmoms long before I became one.



So many of you toss cruel words without any care for what wounds they cause, or even what open wounds already remain that you just make bleed more. Adoption is a personal choice, all around, for the ones adopting, and the ones birthing. If you can offer any sense of compassion, any sense of understanding, then why even speak?



It's so easy to spew slime and hate and hurt anonymously. It's not nearly so easy to actually do research, get to know the individuals you are insulting and hurting and learn about what you are ignorantly running your mouth about.



So. Attack me if you must. But leave these other women alone.
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by on Feb. 10, 2013 at 4:35 PM
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StarryRain
by Gold Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 11:51 AM
I'm not saying you would. I'm just clarifying, for everyone, really. You can say anything you want, and most likely justifiably about her. Just as anyone can involving their own situation. My issue is with those who take personal situations and apply the same variables to every situation when it's not applicable at all. KWIM?

Quoting notjstasocermom:


I wouldn't say it about all bm's.


Quoting StarryRain:

You have every right to say what you wish about her, yes. Not all birthmoms, though.



Quoting notjstasocermom:

well considering I adopted I can say what I want about my bio mom




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notjstasocermom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:04 PM

yep I understand


Quoting StarryRain:

I'm not saying you would. I'm just clarifying, for everyone, really. You can say anything you want, and most likely justifiably about her. Just as anyone can involving their own situation. My issue is with those who take personal situations and apply the same variables to every situation when it's not applicable at all. KWIM?

Quoting notjstasocermom:


I wouldn't say it about all bm's.


Quoting StarryRain:

You have every right to say what you wish about her, yes. Not all birthmoms, though.



Quoting notjstasocermom:

well considering I adopted I can say what I want about my bio mom






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