My kids are 18 months apart. In my family on birthdays, the birthday child gets 1 or 2 presents and the sibling(s) get one small present. If it's a party then all the children get a small toy or goody bag. Well, my mil thinks we are crazy. She just mailed my son's presents because she lives out of state and my son has (literally) 11 presents in this big box and my daughter didnt get anything. She's so upset that there is a huge box of presents for ds and none for her. What do you all do? Does everyone get something, or does the birthday child get gobs and noone else gets anything?