How do you know?

[Anonymous]

How do you know for sure that someone is with you because they want to be , or because they need you?

[NNB]

I'd like this answer too

[atyou]

Look at their left hand.


If the middle finger shakes.....it's because they need you.

[alexsmomaubrys2]

That is a hard question to answer. What exactly do you think he needs from you? Money? If you feel that is the case, stop giving him money and see if he sticks around.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

What??

Quoting atyou:

Look at their left hand.





If the middle finger shakes.....it's because they need you.

[jillbailey26]

In my relationship I know because he wants to be here.  He loves spending time with all of us.  He's happy with our life.

[atyou]

Let me clear that up for you.


The left hand. Not to be confused with the right.

Quoting Anonymous:

What??

Quoting atyou:

Look at their left hand.








If the middle finger shakes.....it's because they need you.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

No.he became disabled and needs me to take care of him. But he didn't want to get married before, and I still don't think he does

Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

That is a hard question to answer. What exactly do you think he needs from you? Money? If you feel that is the case, stop giving him money and see if he sticks around.

[Anonymous]

No that just means that's the finger he uses to finger someone.

Quoting atyou:

Look at their left hand.





If the middle finger shakes.....it's because they need you.

[alexsmomaubrys2]

Then the ball is in your corner. Are you okay with living with him without getting married or aren't you?

Do you have children with him?

Quoting Anonymous:

No.he became disabled and needs me to take care of him. But he didn't want to get married before, and I still don't think he does

Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:

That is a hard question to answer. What exactly do you think he needs from you? Money? If you feel that is the case, stop giving him money and see if he sticks around.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Let me clear up what I meant by 'what??'
Are you being a smart ass like the women on here who say to pee on the keyboard and they'll tell you if you're pregnant? Or is this some kind of scientific thing,and where did you learn this?

Quoting atyou:

Let me clear that up for you.





The left hand. Not to be confused with the right.

Quoting Anonymous:

What??

Quoting atyou:

Look at their left hand.











If the middle finger shakes.....it's because they need you.