need advice: cheating friends... why the he** do people stay in cheating relationships!?
ok say you have two sets up friends...
the first couple are not married and they have always had somewhat of a disfunctional relationship. they have 4 children. the female in this relationship has a history of cheating.
then their is another couple who are married and have two children. their relationship is ok but the husband has a history of cheating. the most recent was just a couple months ago.
now you and your husband find out that the cheating female from one relationship is cheating with the husband of the other relationship. how you know this is because they call each other and text all the time. flirt and when the one females SO is at work the guy who is married is parked outside their apt. at 1:30 in the morning.
my question is do you tell the other people?
why or why not?
is it your place?
i will say this i am a married woman with young children. i have never in my life cheated married or not. so i do not personally stand for it. i personally would want someone to tell me if they new my dh was cheating on me. would you?
why would someone stay time after time?