Just a little curious to know, about misplaced anger or actual reason. Is it true there are women TTC, that get angry at friends or relatives for being pregnant ? I've heard of broken friendships over something that is beyond control. Are there also women that throw their pregnacy in another's face? I'd like to see posts on both ends of the spectrum, pregnant and TTC. Give me juicy details on your feud!
I don't have a feud but I can see how frustrating it would be for someone TTC to constantly see others getting pregnant so easily. Or even women who get pregnant without trying and don't even want it, when they want it soo badly. I don't know of anyone who "threw their pregnancy in anyones face" but maybe sometimes it can seem that way. I know some pregnant women that all they ever want to talk about is being pregnant and other pregnancy related topics and it does get old pretty fast. Yes, I know its exciting( I have done it before) but there are other things we could talk about. You know?
I don't want another child, doc told me I may or may not have complications, but I do have a friend that CONSTANTLY speaks about her easy pregancies. She's a mother of 4. At the end of a very long rant, she always asks me if I'm sad I might NOT be able to conceive as easily as her. I give her the death glare and think " B*tch Please!" . The topic gets so old. Every week or so I have to hear this.
Quoting Anonymous:I don't have a feud but I can see how frustrating it would be for someone TTC to constantly see others getting pregnant so easily. Or even women who get pregnant without trying and don't even want it, when they want it soo badly. I don't know of anyone who "threw their pregnancy in anyones face" but maybe sometimes it can seem that way. I know some pregnant women that all they ever want to talk about is being pregnant and other pregnancy related topics and it does get old pretty fast. Yes, I know its exciting( I have done it before) but there are other things we could talk about. You know?
I get upset and yea maybe a little mad but not at the person, just the situation. why is it so easy for them to get pregnant and why do i have to struggle, that kind of thing. I would never let it interfere in a relationship. It my issue/problem not theirs.
Dude, back off.
sorry, but i think its funny that anyone would be shocked by this.....that having someone able to get pregnant over and over and mabye in your view dosent deserve more kids or take care of the ones she has and so on, then here you are with mc after mc and loss after loss. then yeah it pisses you off ofcourse it does. in our case it was 2 teen age moms and mother of 4 and we were like what the hell, total BS. why us, why them, whats wrong with us, whats wrong with me, why do i deserve this, and so on, its very hard and trying to lose pregnancies or just not be able to get pregnant.
my niece got VERY angry at me for getting pregnant three times in 2.5 years (1 miscarriage) with no real "trying" while she struggled to conceive. I understood and felt bad, but it got to the point she was refusing to come to family functions.
Thankfully she was finally able to get pregnant and now has 3 year old twins.
It took me a year to get pregnant, I was never mad at anyone for getting pregnant before me. I don't understand that.
leaving baby alone while i do laundry?
- MsCherry10
on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:09 AM