*back story: my mother has 3 kids with 3 different men. Our younger siblings father was murdered when she was 3. My mother wasn't in the best financial situation to raise 3 kids so she was sent to live with her fathers mother in another state. Fast forward my younger sibling is 18 years old doing very well (my sister and I have been keeping up with her since she left) and we couldn't be more proud of the young adult she turned out to be. Since she has been gone my mother has not called, sent a letter, money,nothing!
My mother was recently married and I one day brought up my younger sibling to her new husbands family and they were confused. They had no idea we had a younger sister.
Are you fucking kidding me lady! Who fails to mention that they have 3 children instead of 2. Just because they aren't around doesn't mean they don't exist! It pisses me off but my sister and I have talked it over amongst ourselves that when she does pass instead of splitting the insurance policy 2 ways it will be 3. She's entitled to that money just as equally as we are. My mother has no clue what our plans are for the money just in case.