Pregnant with twins. So excited! Scared too, but thrilled to be a mama!
Unsure of how to set things up when they are born... It is me and dh in our 3 bedroom home. He has joint custody of his 3 kids from his first marriage, ages 9, 7, & 4. Due to space limitations, time limitations, and stress, I think it would be best to ask the skids bm to keep them at her home for the first several months until things settle down for us and the twins. DH can visit them or if they are healthy they can come over for dinner, etc...
My friends are giving me mixed reactions... Some think this is a perfectly reasonable request... Others think I am asking for trouble.... What say you?
Edit: Ok I give... not going to ask the skids to stay with their Mom. Will just wing it and hope for the best. I do not want to be a bad step mom... I love his kids and want them to be happy too... Just feeling overwhelmed I guess. Thanks for screwing my head back on straight.