See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
Ok a little back story, my DH got out of the Marine Corps about 2 years ago and when he got out he wanted to go back to Oregon where we are from and I did not. Well he found a great school, and we ended up coming to Oregon. But we agreed that it was only going to be for while he was in school then we were going to move back down south where I wanted to be. Well while we are here, he decided that he wants to go to another school to further his degree, which I don't like but I agreed to that because school is very important.
Well he is about graduate with his first degree, and we have 3 more for his second, and he just landed his DREAM job. Amazing pay, benefits, everything he wants in a job. Which is great that will be great experience for when we move. But now he is saying that he wants to buy a house here and just stay permanently. And I don't want to. I have followed him around for his jobs for the past 8 years and never really complained. But I feel like it is my turn to get what I want. But he says I am being selfish because he is the one working and I am a SAHM so I should just be happy with that.
So am I being selfish in still wanting to move in 3 years when he graduates with his second degree like we have planned for the last 2 years? I kind of feel like I am but at the same time I really do hate it here!