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Some women do not have the right...

...to claim this title:

Hit Like If You're A Proud Parent!!!

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A friend that I have on Facebook is 18. Her and her husband just had their first baby. They go out to the bar every other night. Her husband is not employed. They constantly pawn their son off on family or friends, just so they can sit home and do nothing. She just posted that picture on her page not that long ago...

Like really? You do not have the right to claim that title. I, on the other hand, do. My son is 7 months, almost 8 months, old. I have not been away from him for more than 5 minutes of his life. I don't pawn him off on people. I don't go out drinking every other night. I do almost everything myself. My SO (his father) pays for his diapers, wipes, etc.  

by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:05 PM
Replies (11-20):
lovinglife0682
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:14 PM
So you are being a mom? Want an award?
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ElitestJen
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:14 PM
Lol. You need a drink.
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ShanesMommy2012
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:14 PM

I also formula feed, my son is circumsized, and I'm a SAHM looking for a job. I know how you feel. 

Quoting Isaacsmom913:

Oh boy the Mommy wars.  So long as her child is safe, warm, and loved it doesn't matter if she goes to the bar every night.  I left our son when he was 8 days old for the first time-I formula fed-I circumcized-I'm a SAHM so to many I'm a horrible mother.  Guess what, we all have our brilliant parenting moments and those that make us hang our heads.  I hate the Mommy Wars.

 

jenmomx3
by Silver Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:14 PM
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 Someone is unhappy with their life....and it doesn't sound like its your "friend"...

Lizardannie1966
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:14 PM

Fake IDs still floating around out there, huh? 18 and can get into a bar?

While they go to the bar a little too much, IMO, that doesn't really mean she's a bad Mom.

Stop making the comparisons.

ShanesMommy2012
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:15 PM

Fuckin' tell me about it. 

Quoting ElitestJen:

Lol. You need a drink.

 

ShanesMommy2012
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:16 PM

 No fake ID. She's married to a 24 year old. She can legally drink as long as he's with her at the bar.

Quoting Lizardannie1966:

Fake IDs still floating around out there, huh? 18 and can get into a bar?

While they go to the bar a little too much, IMO, that doesn't really mean she's a bad Mom.

Stop making the comparisons.

 

Josie_P
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:16 PM

Congrats on doing everything a mum should do.

TSNDDY
by Emerald Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:17 PM
18s the legal drinking age here... She might be somewhere like that?

Quoting Lizardannie1966:

Fake IDs still floating around out there, huh? 18 and can get into a bar?

While they go to the bar a little too much, IMO, that doesn't really mean she's a bad Mom.

Stop making the comparisons.

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Bero2007
by Bronze Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 12:17 PM

Why is she going out to a bar if she's 18 let alone a mother?

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