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shes rubbing it in my face that shes pregnant!

Anonymous
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I've been ttc for #4 for five months and its so hard! My older sister just announced that she's pregnant with #1 after 3 years of trying. I get that its a very long time to ttc but she's not sensitive to my pain of not being pregnant. She wants me to throw her baby shower, they had a party just to announce the pregnancy and they're doing a gender reveal so I feel like she's ribbing it. How can I help her remember what ttc is like and get her to be more sensitive
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:14 PM
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wkukid
by Beach Bum on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:15 PM
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So don't host the shower. Besides that the rest if it just sounds like a excited momma who waited along time for her baby.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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lanceandhailey
by Platinum Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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 Are you kidding me? She's not rubbing it in! They tried for 3 YEARS to get pregnant, she has every right to be ecstatic and over the moon. You should be happy for her..

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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OMG you have 4 already and you are butt hurt because she is over the moon for her pregnancy. Decline throwing the baby shower and do not go to the gender reveal. Let her have her moments.

MrsRinehart2010
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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 im sure it effected her just as much when you were pregnant.

Why not just suck it up an be a good sister an throw the baby shower. Shoot you already have 3 children to be happy with lol this is just her one.

cLanief
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:16 PM
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Bitter bitter people.... ffs
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KrissyKC
by Platinum Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:17 PM
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oh my... jealous much?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:17 PM

Jeez lady chill out it's her first baby. Just be happy for her! 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:17 PM
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Sounds like u need to realize its not about you. SHE'S pregnant for the first time ! Do u remember ur excitement? Share that excitement with her!!! She's ur sister. This isn't a competition.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 11, 2013 at 1:17 PM
She is minimizing my pain saying I already have three that I got pregnant with easy. She doesn't get it

Quoting wkukid:

So don't host the shower. Besides that the rest if it just sounds like a excited momma who waited along time for her baby.



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