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what should i do

Anonymous
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So 2 mos ago my 3 year old and i joined a church......a month after we joined the pastor spoke about gays and how the bible says it's wrong to be gay and said we'd go to hell if we associate ourselves with gays.......

Tonite i text one of my best friends to fill her in on my weekend plans(i've known her since highschool) which would be meeting a male friend i've known for a couple weeks at the gym on saturday because we both work out, thats when she informs me, i need to talk to the pastor about dating because we have rules to follow so that we can date.

Wth didn't know i was going to be treated like a kid that was on dating restriction when i joined this church......

I also didn't know i'm supposed to turn my back and not love a person because they like the same gender

How should i confront my pastor and tell him i'm an adult and don't appreciate being told i can't date and that i can't hang out with someone who loves the same gender ?

Should i just leave the church?

I like church but need my life
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:35 PM
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Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:36 PM

-_-
by Ruby Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:36 PM

Figure out what is right for you and make changes accordingly.

jillbailey26
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:36 PM

I would attend a different church.


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

firemouse23
by Silver Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:38 PM

Go church shopping and find something else that you are more comfortable with.  Once you find one you like make the switch permanently.

Aleta775
by on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:38 PM
Attend a different church.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:38 PM
Thats what i want to do i don't like being treated like a kid

Quoting jillbailey26:

I would attend a different church.

wkukid
by Beach Bum on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:39 PM

I'd go to a different church. That one seems to be breeding intolerance.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:39 PM
I have gay people in my family my dads baby brother is gay

Quoting -_-:

Figure out what is right for you and make changes accordingly.

-_-
by Ruby Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:40 PM


Quoting Anonymous:

I have gay people in my family my dads baby brother is gay

Quoting -_-:

Figure out what is right for you and make changes accordingly.

ok?

Figure out what is right for you and make changes accordingly.

1likeme
by Gold Member on Feb. 11, 2013 at 9:41 PM
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I would simply leave the church. Confronting the pastor will be a complete waste of time and most likely you will end up being lectured by a bigot.
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