Okay long story short..
My sons dad has nothing to do with him...I left him when I was pregnant because he cheated on me with the chick he is now married to. I have always told him he is more than welcome to meet his son, ect ect that I would never stop them from having a relationship... he decided he just wanted to pretend it never happened. Up until about 2 years ago, I would talk to his new wife about visitation/child support and even promised birthday cards/presents that never happened, but havent heard from them since. Today I get a CS modification letter in the mail. Im wondering if I should just ignore it, or message her to see what they think. I have no problem lowering it if they are struggling, or whatever. Should I email his wife and ask her? He wont talk to me which is why his wife deals with it.. but I dont mind, Ill be the bigger person about it and do what we gotta do in order to communicate.. it is only once every few years.. So what do you think? Should I email her asking what she thinks and try to come across an agreement?