He cheated on me while I was pregnant. Hid my pregnancy from his family and was a total jerk while I was pregnant.
He's a great dad. Once baby came he stepped up. We broke up 2 months after. We actually coparent wonderfully, lol!
What about you?
My oldests bio father. Short version...were together 2 years broke up found out I was pregnant he had cheated on me previously but claimed the baby wasn't his and that I was the cheater...ignored me my entire pregnancy until the end...invited his 16 yr old gf to my baby shower pretended not to have a gf to try and get back with me after my son was born he moved back down to the town I lived in and moved in promising to step up, never did finally one day after my son was 16 months old and his dad was having one of his fits of rage over nothing he jerked my son by his arm off the couch and screamed at him to leave him the fuck alone and I kicked him to the curb. He knocked someone else up a few months later and never saw my son again. He never pays child support or even asks about his son and claims he only has one child his other daughter (who he doesn't take care of or see either) He's 28 now and engaged to another 16 yr old girl with her parents blessing. Words can't describe how much I hate him.
I was 16 and went to my boyfriends house, he started drinking and I went upstairs to go to the bathroom when I came out he tried getting me to go into the bedroom with him, when I told him no he threw my up against the wall and held me there by my throat for a minute. Thankfully my best friend was downstairs with his best friend and came running up the steps. We left and I never saw him again. He called me once trying to apologize and I hung up on him.
he would pretend he threw away one of my favorite things then get pissed at me for getting upset.
he would choke me to the point my larynx bruised.
he threw my phone at my back so hard it hit my shoulderblade. hasnt healed yet 2 1/2yrs later.
he would take the battery out of my phone, and fuck with the tong things so it wouldnt work, break it, take it from mee so i couldnt call for help
he would lock me out of my computer, put keyloggers on it, hack my emails
he tied my 18mo DD to her bed cuz she kept getting out of bed during nap time then would say its MY FAULT he did that cuz i wasnt home. i awasnt 20 ft away at my friends who we where neighbors with
he cheated on me constantly.
nagged and nagged that i was trying hard enough to find a job when he didnt do shit at all. and when i finally got an interview, he refused to take me (for no reason)
he always called me ugly and fat
on christmas he didnt want to wake up and said he should have spent it with someone else
he talked shit about me behind my back to our friends, his family AND MINE. luckily my family knew me better and didnt believe hhis lies. but hell, thats why his family hated me.
after he was arrested for tying my DD up (9bviously i broke up with him!) he hacked me out of every email acct, my fb, posted fake craigslist personal ads about me with my phone #.
when he found out i was pregnant and in a relationship with my DH, before we married, he sent my DH an email saying hes a sick fuck and t date someone his own age, said my family hates me and loves him. (120+% WRONG!) AND WHEN MY Dh didnt reply, he hacked HIS EMAIL & FB!
yea. worst ex. ever.
Quoting Reality_check:
my recent ex. abusive in every way possible.
he would pretend he threw away one of my favorite things then get pissed at me for getting upset.
he would choke me to the point my larynx bruised.
he threw my phone at my back so hard it hit my shoulderblade. hasnt healed yet 2 1/2yrs later.
he would take the battery out of my phone, and fuck with the tong things so it wouldnt work, break it, take it from mee so i couldnt call for help
he would lock me out of my computer, put keyloggers on it, hack my emails
he tied my 18mo DD to her bed cuz she kept getting out of bed during nap time then would say its MY FAULT he did that cuz i wasnt home. i awasnt 20 ft away at my friends who we where neighbors with
he cheated on me constantly.
nagged and nagged that i was trying hard enough to find a job when he didnt do shit at all. and when i finally got an interview, he refused to take me (for no reason)
he always called me ugly and fat
on christmas he didnt want to wake up and said he should have spent it with someone else
he talked shit about me behind my back to our friends, his family AND MINE. luckily my family knew me better and didnt believe hhis lies. but hell, thats why his family hated me.
after he was arrested for tying my DD up (9bviously i broke up with him!) he hacked me out of every email acct, my fb, posted fake craigslist personal ads about me with my phone #.
when he found out i was pregnant and in a relationship with my DH, before we married, he sent my DH an email saying hes a sick fuck and t date someone his own age, said my family hates me and loves him. (120+% WRONG!) AND WHEN MY Dh didnt reply, he hacked HIS EMAIL & FB!
yea. worst ex. ever.
DH was my 1st real relationship and I am still with him 15 years later. I have been with 2 other guys but we didn't date.
My ex. I was too stupid to see he was using me. And cheating on me left and right. Thankfully I have an awesome husband now. I am so glad I never got pregnant by any of the loser's that I dated. My life would be ruined.
Wow, SO GLAD you got away from him!!!
Quoting Reality_check:
my recent ex. abusive in every way possible.
he would pretend he threw away one of my favorite things then get pissed at me for getting upset.
he would choke me to the point my larynx bruised.
he threw my phone at my back so hard it hit my shoulderblade. hasnt healed yet 2 1/2yrs later.
he would take the battery out of my phone, and fuck with the tong things so it wouldnt work, break it, take it from mee so i couldnt call for help
he would lock me out of my computer, put keyloggers on it, hack my emails
he tied my 18mo DD to her bed cuz she kept getting out of bed during nap time then would say its MY FAULT he did that cuz i wasnt home. i awasnt 20 ft away at my friends who we where neighbors with
he cheated on me constantly.
nagged and nagged that i was trying hard enough to find a job when he didnt do shit at all. and when i finally got an interview, he refused to take me (for no reason)
he always called me ugly and fat
on christmas he didnt want to wake up and said he should have spent it with someone else
he talked shit about me behind my back to our friends, his family AND MINE. luckily my family knew me better and didnt believe hhis lies. but hell, thats why his family hated me.
after he was arrested for tying my DD up (9bviously i broke up with him!) he hacked me out of every email acct, my fb, posted fake craigslist personal ads about me with my phone #.
when he found out i was pregnant and in a relationship with my DH, before we married, he sent my DH an email saying hes a sick fuck and t date someone his own age, said my family hates me and loves him. (120+% WRONG!) AND WHEN MY Dh didnt reply, he hacked HIS EMAIL & FB!
yea. worst ex. ever.
what to do when the special needs kid is the bully?
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- kitchen.ninja
on Feb. 12, 2013 at 12:05 AM