My niece keeps sayin' on fb her baby is fussy but she doesn't want to hold him and spoil him. It drives me nuts. She is a first time mom at home with her mom (my sil that lacks skills as a mom).
I haven't said anything. Not really my place but i did today. I commented and told her she couldn't spoil him with a :) .
I hold to the notion that you can't. What say you?