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I am livid! How DARE they??

Posted by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:04 PM
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DD's TPN (IV nutrition) was stopped today due to fluid overload triggering seizures, so she will be gone in a matter of days.

My mom and sister came home from getting some of the funeral arrangements taken care of, and the first thing my sister says to me is "You better tell Hawk (my BF's nickname) not to come to Sophia's funeral. We told the funeral home that he's not allowed in."

How DARE they!? They have NO right whatsoever to tell ME who can and cannot come to MY child's funeral! No way in hell am I going to let that fly! They have overstepped one boundary too many! I don't give a flying fuck if BF's presence there upsets DD's father! Maybe I'd care about his meaningless feelings if he hadn't turned on me when I needed him most and become a verbally abusive prick! 

BF adores DD and she adores him. He has been the biggest thing keeping me sane through all of this. He has as much right to be at DD's funeral, if not more than the pricks on DD's father's side of the family. Who, by the way, have made NO effort whatsoever to see DD, then have the gall to accuse me of keeping her from them! 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:05 PM
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o.O....
by Cara on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:05 PM

What did you say to them?

Eta- I'm so sorry about your daughter. My prayers are with your family.

othermom
by Ruby Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:06 PM

Tell them to stay out of it. I am so sorry

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:06 PM
Sorry to hear all that. :(
VannaMae307
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:07 PM

So sorry for this situation all around. {{hugs}}

NanaMomo
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:07 PM
Oh wow mama, I'm sorry :(
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:07 PM
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are you in ga by any chance..i know a hawk....

Denecia
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:07 PM
I don't think I could handle everything as well as you have.
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tezell78
by Silver Member on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:08 PM
Oh my lord mama, I'm so sorry for all you are going through.
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Ashley_Carlson
by on Feb. 12, 2013 at 8:08 PM

I didn't say anything to them. I had to bite my tongue to keep myself from saying something I'd regret.

Quoting o.O....:

What did you say to them?

Eta- I'm so sorry about your daughter. My prayers are with your family.


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