DD's TPN (IV nutrition) was stopped today due to fluid overload triggering seizures, so she will be gone in a matter of days.
My mom and sister came home from getting some of the funeral arrangements taken care of, and the first thing my sister says to me is "You better tell Hawk (my BF's nickname) not to come to Sophia's funeral. We told the funeral home that he's not allowed in."
How DARE they!? They have NO right whatsoever to tell ME who can and cannot come to MY child's funeral! No way in hell am I going to let that fly! They have overstepped one boundary too many! I don't give a flying fuck if BF's presence there upsets DD's father! Maybe I'd care about his meaningless feelings if he hadn't turned on me when I needed him most and become a verbally abusive prick!
BF adores DD and she adores him. He has been the biggest thing keeping me sane through all of this. He has as much right to be at DD's funeral, if not more than the pricks on DD's father's side of the family. Who, by the way, have made NO effort whatsoever to see DD, then have the gall to accuse me of keeping her from them!