I recently filed for divorce after 3 years of standing by my husband through drug addiction, approx 10 times in and out of rehab, mental illness, and finally him cheating on me twice. I was miserable. I wanted my marriage to work, but that obviously wasn't happening. So, I filed.
I started talking to another man that was going through the EXACT same thing. Neither of us want a relationship due to the fact that we're still broken and hurt from everything we've been through. But going from being married for years and being able to have sex any time, to all of a sudden not being able to.. well, I just want to. So we're going to. Soon, I hope.