Help I don't know how to help my best friend deal with her grief, and anxiety over death
So I'm very worried about my best friend who I saw tonight. I have not been seeing a lot of her lately, and I found out why. She has lost her mom, her grandpa, and her fiance's dad all in the last two years and she said she is so scared her grandma who basically raised her is going to die soon because she is almost 90 and she when she thinks of doing anything with friends obsesses, and "has to" see her Grandma thinking she will regret not seeing her therefore she sees her constantly. That wouldn't be a HUGE problem other than her anxiety except tonight she told me...
"If I don't get proof of an afterlife before my Grandma dies I am going to kill myself."
She is agnostic, she knows I am buddhist, and I strongly believe in the spirit going on, and eventually everyone becoming part of something, and I have my own beliefs I have never pushed on her. But I do STRONGLY believe in SOMETHING that happens. She knows I have seen psychics and whatnot before, and she is sitting there staring at me telling me she wants to see the psychic who helped me, and I feel I should take her. She said when she was younger and she believed in an afterlife and she lost her friend to a sudden death she didn't feel this way. Should I do all I can to convince her of my beliefs? I am not the type of person to normally do this. My husband is an atheist, so I am normally live and let live, but if she is TELLING ME she wants to die if she does not feel her loved ones went on somewhere should I do all I can to convince her? Also she is a mom, so I worry that if this threat is serious about her child. I mentioned that, but she strayed away from the topic and said basically he would have others to care for him.
So what can I do? What should I do??? Her fiance knows how she feels she said btw. So I don't need to run and tell him.