psycho mother in law
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Last month my mil called my husband at night saying the people hacked her home alarm and were on the intercom saying they were going to kill her and make her have a heart attack. Thinking that someone was bothering her I called the cops to get them to check it out and when the cops get there, there is nothing or no one there. She then tells my husband that the voices are talking to her again and repeating everything that my husband is saying into the phone. Yeah, the voices were in her head.
Fast forward about 2 weeks, she calls one of my bil's saying the androids are under her house and digging tunnels for cars and 2 different gangs called the "pickers" and "tasers". My bil gets worried and calls her best friend to go and check on her (he lives in VA and had to drive down to where the lives a few hours away). Best friend gets there and mil snaps and attacks her, beats the hell out of her and she gets arrested and put in the psych ward for the night. A bunch of other shit happened and in a series of unfortunately events she is now here with us and our 3 kids. A 3 year old and 7 month and twins.
She isn't taking her meds, dh won't ask her about it because he knows she will lie and she has been saying some crazy bull shit. Lets begin...she was tased by the cia, the androids fell in love with her . She ruined my twins schedule..rearranged my house without asking..high voltage from all of our high tech equipment (tv, cell phones, computer) is letting the androids spy on us..my 3 year old got the flu shot at the end of October and she said that the electro magnetic fields with the flu shot has given my 7 month old girl the cold she picked up 2 days ago..she whispers to the voices in her head all day and thinks the cops are going to hide her underground..
it all sounds funny, but she is starting to get aggressive again. I will not leave her alone with my children ever. Now she is asking to stay until may and dh is actually considering it! I am with this woman 24/7, my life has completely been turned upside down and she micro manages everything i do. She lies about taking her pills, walks around my house in the middle of the night talking to herself, wakes up my kids, she got pissed at me today cause I wasn't understanding what she was saying about high voltage whatever.
I would never in a million years make my husband choose us or his mom and I really do want her to get better, but if she stays here longer than past the 1st of march I am taking the kids and staying somewhere else in town until she is gone. It had only been 5 days she has been here and I am about to crack.
Sorry this is so long. I just needed to vent out. But trust me, there is an ass ton more crazy shit she does that I didn't even post about. My husband really is trying his best, he just refuses to see how bad off she is. He just tells her " to grow up and to quit making up stories". It's not a good time in our normally happy home right now :(
Sorry if there are any typos. It's 240 am here and I am exhausted.
Fast forward about 2 weeks, she calls one of my bil's saying the androids are under her house and digging tunnels for cars and 2 different gangs called the "pickers" and "tasers". My bil gets worried and calls her best friend to go and check on her (he lives in VA and had to drive down to where the lives a few hours away). Best friend gets there and mil snaps and attacks her, beats the hell out of her and she gets arrested and put in the psych ward for the night. A bunch of other shit happened and in a series of unfortunately events she is now here with us and our 3 kids. A 3 year old and 7 month and twins.
She isn't taking her meds, dh won't ask her about it because he knows she will lie and she has been saying some crazy bull shit. Lets begin...she was tased by the cia, the androids fell in love with her . She ruined my twins schedule..rearranged my house without asking..high voltage from all of our high tech equipment (tv, cell phones, computer) is letting the androids spy on us..my 3 year old got the flu shot at the end of October and she said that the electro magnetic fields with the flu shot has given my 7 month old girl the cold she picked up 2 days ago..she whispers to the voices in her head all day and thinks the cops are going to hide her underground..
it all sounds funny, but she is starting to get aggressive again. I will not leave her alone with my children ever. Now she is asking to stay until may and dh is actually considering it! I am with this woman 24/7, my life has completely been turned upside down and she micro manages everything i do. She lies about taking her pills, walks around my house in the middle of the night talking to herself, wakes up my kids, she got pissed at me today cause I wasn't understanding what she was saying about high voltage whatever.
I would never in a million years make my husband choose us or his mom and I really do want her to get better, but if she stays here longer than past the 1st of march I am taking the kids and staying somewhere else in town until she is gone. It had only been 5 days she has been here and I am about to crack.
Sorry this is so long. I just needed to vent out. But trust me, there is an ass ton more crazy shit she does that I didn't even post about. My husband really is trying his best, he just refuses to see how bad off she is. He just tells her " to grow up and to quit making up stories". It's not a good time in our normally happy home right now :(
Sorry if there are any typos. It's 240 am here and I am exhausted.
Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2013 at 4:38 AM
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Feb. 13, 2013 at 5:22 AM
Lol! Dh and his brothers didn't want her to be alone and thought time away from her house would be good for her. One brother just found out he and his wife are expecting and he is about to deploy, the other brother is in the middle of learning a new job in VA. We are the only ones with any kind of stability. But it is obvious after today that this arrangement won't even make it to the first like they were hoping
Quoting Anonymous:
I was with you for a little bit there, thinking, "holy hell that sounds like my MIL!" But I kept reading...nope, I think yours is crazier.
That is awful. Why does she need to stay with you guys? I mean, is she waiting on something? Housing? I think this is a good situation to make your DH choose between her or his family...this sounds dangerous especially with kids so young.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Feb. 13, 2013 at 5:27 AM
She maybe sleeping, but I am not much. I keep my twins and 3 year old locked in a bedroom at night with me and during the day we do everything together.
Quoting Mommy383:
F that, she wouldn't be sleeping under the same roof as my kids any night. I too thought this was one of those typical rants.
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on Feb. 13, 2013 at 5:30 AM
She needs commited into a nut ward,for the safety of your kids,think of them,not your hub.
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on Feb. 13, 2013 at 5:36 AM
She needs serious psych evaluation and placement. I am so sorry. It is hard to admit that a loved one needs care, but she needs professional help and if she beat the hell out of her friend, I fear for the safety of your family.
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on Feb. 13, 2013 at 5:41 AM
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oh wow. Your husband is wrong to force you to babysit his dangerous mother. I know he loves her, heck you probably even love her, but she could HURT or KILL one of your children in the blink of an eye. Does this man not understand how little force it takes to snap an infants neck?
You do need to lay down a boundary and let your husband know that your home will no longer be a substitute for bedlam. I think your plan to leave is sound and before you do you may want to get set up with an emergency custody order as well.
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on Feb. 13, 2013 at 8:25 AM
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There are soft, padded rooms for crazy people like her. She should not be around your kids, or any other living creatures for that matter.
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leaving baby alone while i do laundry?