And you and he miraculously worked it out, would you secretely keep up with him?
My husband had a one night stand with an old girlfriend (long story but I was the one that introduced them again not knowing they had a past!!). He told me and after ALOT of prayer and open, honest communication, we decided to stay together. Now 4 years later we are stronger than we have ever been in our marriage.
Up until recently, I kept tabs on his phone line (I can see who he calls and texts on our online bill) and he doesnt know. The last time I did this his main phone calls and texts were to me. I havent looked since because I really do trust him now.
Would you secretly keep tabs?
I think I've either liked or responded to everyone's comments (I'm still learning cafe mom and its hard to keep up!!) Thanks for all your responses alot of you guys know what it's like to stay in a marriage that was originally doomed to fail!!!