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Anonymous
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So...I met my soul mate. Problem is I'm married and its not him. If I were to sit and make a list of every attribute, look, personality trait, ect. that I would want in a man, this man hits them all. He is wonderful, smart, kind, and overly the hottest man I've ever seen. We work together and get along fantastically. We joke and play constantly and I know he is interested but not acting on it. No, I am not cheating with him physically, but honestly I'm starting to feel as if I'm cheating anyways.

Fuck.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:30 AM
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audreesmama
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:31 AM
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The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.

                                       

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:40 AM
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This is what happened when I met my current Dh. I left my ex and I'm all the happier for it. We have been together 5 years now.
twinmommy27
by Ruby Member on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:41 AM
Did you feel that way about your husband at first?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:43 AM
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I can't understand this. I don't even look at men like that anymore. Sure, I have lots of amazing guy friends with all the qualities you listed and yes I know some have interest in me but I could never look at them as any thing more than a good friend.

If you're not happy with dh then leave him. But that doesn't give you the right to start talking to other men. If you want your family to stay together, stop focusing on other men and how amazing they are and focus on the man you married and why you fell in love with him in the first place. It's easy to get in a rut and get bored but that doesn't mean you go start talking to other men.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:43 AM
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Yep, be careful. Don't burn your bridges unless you're absolutely sure.

Quoting audreesmama:

The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.

Crazy-Steph
by Ruby Member on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:44 AM
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Yep.  Start fertilizing your own yard.

Quoting audreesmama:

The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.


olliesmommy2
by Metal Awareness on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:44 AM

 Is being with a married woman on his wish list? You should really come up with a decision. Leave your man to be with this guy. Or stop the emotional affair. Its not right. Im sure its hard, but you have the control right now. Use it for good.

ColtsFan1912
by FriendoftheFoot on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:45 AM

sounds like you're already cheating emotionally.

jillbailey26
by on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:45 AM
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Quoting audreesmama:

The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.

If someone took the time to water their own grass, it would be just as green.  :)


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 13, 2013 at 11:51 AM

 I believe this was already stated....

Quoting ColtsFan1912:

sounds like you're already cheating emotionally.

 

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