So...I met my soul mate. Problem is I'm married and its not him. If I were to sit and make a list of every attribute, look, personality trait, ect. that I would want in a man, this man hits them all. He is wonderful, smart, kind, and overly the hottest man I've ever seen. We work together and get along fantastically. We joke and play constantly and I know he is interested but not acting on it. No, I am not cheating with him physically, but honestly I'm starting to feel as if I'm cheating anyways.
Fuck.
The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.



I can't understand this. I don't even look at men like that anymore. Sure, I have lots of amazing guy friends with all the qualities you listed and yes I know some have interest in me but I could never look at them as any thing more than a good friend.
If you're not happy with dh then leave him. But that doesn't give you the right to start talking to other men. If you want your family to stay together, stop focusing on other men and how amazing they are and focus on the man you married and why you fell in love with him in the first place. It's easy to get in a rut and get bored but that doesn't mean you go start talking to other men.
Yep. Start fertilizing your own yard.
Quoting audreesmama:The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.
Is being with a married woman on his wish list? You should really come up with a decision. Leave your man to be with this guy. Or stop the emotional affair. Its not right. Im sure its hard, but you have the control right now. Use it for good.
Quoting audreesmama:The grass is always greener on the other side. Tread carefully, mama.
If someone took the time to water their own grass, it would be just as green. :)
"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification" Romans 14:19



