at what point does a friendship become an emotional affair?
so I never post here... but today I am looking for HONEST opinions.. and if you can relly on Mom Confessions for something.. its for honest opinions.. no matter how nasty they are.
I will spare you the long drama.
just a few key points. he has admitted he likes her. he has kept a friendship with her for over 4 years.-
I never said they could not be friends, I am not the type of girl to do that stuff... even though I knew about their "friendship" and it made me jealous, I respected the friendship
last year he traded in his friendship.. for a friendship of mine ( the guy had a crush on me ) I was not to talk to the guy, and he would stop talking to this girl.. at the time, it really sounded like a good compromise.
one year later, I am pregnant, and I find out that he kept the friendship the whole time. lying about it the whole time. not caring if it would eventually hurt my feelings or not.
she has a boyfriend, I really doubt there is anything romantic going on betwee them. I KNOW it s just phone and email contact. he talks to her about me and our problems. and random stuff I guess.
he defends this friendship. but i know better, and I know its not just friendship. he hasnt invited her to our house to hang out, like the rest of his friends. she is not even around for his birthday, they have no contact.. and I know the rest of his friends, and.. well, she would have been invited to hang IF they were just friends.. but apparently, he needs to keep this friendship a secret from me.
at what point would YOU be uncomfortable if this were your hubby??
at what time would the situation become unacceptable?