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skeletons in the closet..........

Anonymous
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Are you confident that your DH has shared his past with you? Have you shared your deep dark secrets with him?

We have all made wrong decisions and have made stupid mistakes. Some people have done things that they become a little ashamed of later in life. "Skeletons in the closet" 

Would you be upset if you found something out about your husband that he did many years before you guys met that gave him a criminal record? He did not go to jail but it is there on his record and he never told you because it was something he did in his early 20's when he hung out with the wrong crowd and he is ashamed.

He is a good husband, he is a good father and a good provider. 

Would you be hurt that he didn't feel comfortable sharing something with you that he is ashamed of? 

edited to add: it is not rape, muder or anything at all to do with children. he did not hurt anyone.


Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:45 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:47 AM
I've got a whole grave yard in my closet and its gonna stay that way!
The_Doodle
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:47 AM

I wouldn't care unless it was something major (murder, rape, etc)

Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:47 AM

That would depend on what it was.....Murder, Child Rape/Molestation, Rape......things like that would really get me  upset especially IF I found out and he wasn't the one that told me

kngarber
by Katie on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:48 AM
This is exactly what I was going to say! Lol

Quoting Anonymous:

I've got a whole grave yard in my closet and its gonna stay that way!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:49 AM
Well I didn't find out about some old debts DH tried to conceal until I was married to him for almost two years. I was very mad, but in the end we worked it out. So, yes, I'd be upset, but willing to fix it.
Master_Debater
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:49 AM
I know everything and so does he.
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needsupport100
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:49 AM

i did my own background check on dh when we first started talking

he knows my deepest darkest seceret so nothing to hide

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:49 AM


no nothing like that!

Quoting The_Doodle:

I wouldn't care unless it was something major (murder, rape, etc)



kagegirl
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:50 AM
DF has shared some pretty unreal shit with me that all checks out. After the stuff he HAS told me, I am not going to worry about what he hasn't/
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by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:51 AM

this

Quoting Sassy762:

That would depend on what it was.....Murder, Child Rape/Molestation, Rape......things like that would really get me  upset especially IF I found out and he wasn't the one that told me


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