Hi ladies. So, maybe some of you might have some good advice. My husband and I are at a loos at what to do. Okay so heres the back story. We have full custody of SD who is 13 years old. BM is a meth addict and has been addicted to it for almost 11 years. She has been in and out of prison, she has been in and out of rehab, she's had court ordered rehab, nothing helps, she just goes right back to using meth again. She currently is serving time right now for manufacturing a meth lab. Anyway, she had her parental rights to SD suspended until she does a bunch of things and turns it back into the court. She was ordered to do these things 10 years ago. Never happend. She was charged with child neglect when Sd was 2 because she left SD home alone for hours with no food or water, at 2 years old!
Anyway, BM is getting out of prison soon and SD is DYING TO see her. She says she can help her mom get better and really wants to be a part of her moms life. I can understand totally with SD wanting to be apart of her moms life. BM hasnt come around, tried to see SD, called on birthdays, NOTHING, no contact for 9 years, going on 10 soon. What would you ladies do? Let SD go see her mother?
BM also has 3 other kids with another guy and she has NO rights to those kids, and the grandparents are raising those kids because the father of those kids is also a meth addict...huge mess I know!
ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED!!