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Abortion or get out my house. Updated.

Anonymous
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Thats what my unborns (dads mom) grandma said to me. I KNOW I dont need a baby right now. This is going to be rough. But I wont consider abortion. She tells me she had one, my neice pipes in telling me she had one WHEN SHE WAS 6 MONTHS!! That i had to do it and not think about it. Im not. I have to find somewhere to go now but I wont let this lady even try to tell me what to do. And I feel like crap cause I honestly dont know what im going to do. (No abortion, as far as living situation.) Needing someone to talk to please!


Me and my son left her house last week. When I went to the doctor and she saw that I was serious about having the baby she gave me 15 days to get out. I didn't know where I was going. Honestly thought I was going to a shelter. Well last Tuesday my ex (3 yr olds dad and this baby's dad) came in my room fussing and acting a fool. I said something smart and he choked me twice and hit me in the mouth. His mother came in the room jumping on his side wanting to talk and I just told her I had nothing to say at the time. She tells me I can leave that day then. I of course told them I wouldn't be leaving without my son (they thought I was gonna leave him due to going to a shelter) she calls the cops. They let me and my son leave and I went immediately and put a temporary protection order against my ex and moved 40 mins away. My stepdad rented us a place 2 doors down from him and my mom and reassured the bills will be paid til I can take over. I haven't heard from my sons dad nor anyone in that family in a week and it has felt awesome. It's been almost 3 years since I had my own place and oh my it feels soooo great. I didn't have any furniture or anything. They wouldn't even let me get my sons clothes when the police escorted us to get our things. But I've gotten him a few toys. And with the help of friends and family we should be able to stay there in the next day or two. It really feels good to have people on my side and things to be going soo well. Now to get ready for baby :)

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:26 PM
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Megan11587
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:27 PM
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Geez, she sounds like a peach. How old are you?
IslandBreeze
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:34 PM

Don't do it unless you are absolutely sure. 

shygurl3166
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:35 PM
Hw old are you and where are you?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:35 PM
I'm 30. Ive had a bad few months. Lost my job then car. But I'm not asking her to take care of a baby obviously. Hell I'm taking care of her old ass right now cause she had back surgery last week.

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Geez, she sounds like a peach. How old are you?
Yurixsi
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:35 PM
Its your body your choice. Do whats better for you
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AnnieMcD
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:36 PM
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So, she had an abortion at 6 months along? You realize that they don't do elective abortions that late, right? And tell granny to shove it up her ass sideways.
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cuppycake1919
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:37 PM
Do what is better for you. Don't do it if you don't want to, you are your own woman.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:37 PM

Birth control.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:37 PM
I'm 30. Old enough to know better but I was on BC. I mean, no excuse but its happened now. No changing it. and to her its nothing. Like a trip to the grocery store. I would never forgive myself. Im in georgia.

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Hw old are you and where are you?
PROGENITOR
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 3:38 PM
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If you are 30 then you can figure it out on your own.

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