I've been with the same man for 5 years, but now divorced, and have arrangements to have sex with a guy I've known for awhile that is also recently divorced. Neither of us want a relationship, we're simply fullfilling a need. I've kissed the guy, but nothing more than that. I'm going over there this weekend to have sex.
BUT I'm SUPER nervous. It's been years since I've had sex with anyone other than my ex and I'm worried about so much. Ladie, calm my fears.
1) I recently had a baby. No stretch marks, but my stomach isn't flat yet. He is VERY much in shape and fit, so I'm nervous about my body not being as perfect as his.
2) I'm breastfeeding. Seriously. What if I squirt milk on him!?
3) Do I need to shave down there? I shaved like two weeks ago, so it's not like a bush.. but my ex liked hair and absolutely hated a bald vajayjay, but then I know others that hate hair completely. What to do, what to do..?
4) What if I'm not any good? My ex husband and I had great sex, but we loved each other. I was comfortable with him. I may not have that same comfort with this guy which may result in my being terrible.
Despite these fears, I REALLY want this. Like a dog in heat. I need this. Help me out, mamas.