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It's Valentines day and my husband is out with another woman.

Anonymous
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We've been having issues- first there was the intimate texting affair and then the cialis search online and many incriminating texts and facebook messages of him propositioning women but he swore to me he wasn't actually cheating.  He's just out with the guys.  Hell, that's what I believed for YEARS before I accidentially found those text messages.

Tonight I called him and actually HEARD her.  He must not have realized I had answered the phone already because I heard her in the background, "oh, it's time for you to make a phone call" and laughing, like okay please the wife and get it over with.  And when I tried to tell him that I heard her, he called me crazy.  I told him I would at least respect him if he admitted it and got a divorce instead of lying about it. He told me "I'm getting off the phone now" and I'm yelling "no, just admit it" and I can hear her laughing in the background.

He called me back 5 minutes later telling me he didn't even know what I was talking about.  I told him to move his stuff out tomorrow.  Now his phone is turned off.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:27 PM
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LadyNCVE
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:28 PM

:( OMGosh.  I'm so sorry.  I dont know that I can offer you any sane and reasonable advice. I'd have his shit packed and on the curb.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:28 PM

BUMP!

HerLadyGrey
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:30 PM

You did the right thing.

lisairv
by Platinum Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:30 PM

Sorry..... :(

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:30 PM

 


Quoting LadyNCVE:

:( OMGosh.  I'm so sorry.  I dont know that I can offer you any sane and reasonable advice. I'd have his shit packed and on the curb.  

I'm not sure I'm sane and reasonable right now, but thanks!  I'm just- think speechless except with your whole body and mind.

 

LadyNCVE
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:31 PM
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I'd probably also go early to the bank and close all the accounts.  Of course depending on your financial situation and how things are set up.  I'd probably also call an emergency lock place and have the locks changed tonight.  Sorry. I know I may not be helping.  I'm just mad at him for you.  
 

And call and cancel his cards while he's out.  

jillbailey26
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:31 PM
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I would get all of his clothes and bathroom stuff, put them on the couch and place a trash bag or two on top of them.  Then go to bed and lock the door.  Have yourself a good cry and go to sleep.


"Let us therefore make every effort to do what leads to peace and to mutual edification"  Romans 14:19

EAzizM
by Erica on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:31 PM
Good effin riddance. You don't need such a pos in your life.
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Mrs.Winchester
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:31 PM
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Why isn't he at home spending time with you on Valentines Day?  Why would he go out with his friends?  He should put his relationship first.  That to me is a huge red flag.

kellymarie323
by on Feb. 14, 2013 at 10:31 PM
So sorry
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